The Aligned Advocate

For the Lawyer Who Feels Burned Out But Doesn’t Know Why

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I'm a former big law attorney turned executive & career coach for lawyers. In this blog, I share tips and insights to help lawyers succeed without burnout and align their careers with their authentic selves and thrive.

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If you’ve ever found yourself going through the motions at work, dreading Monday mornings, or feeling like the passion that once drove you has drained away, you’re not alone. I have coaching clients who tell me they cry in their cars on the way to work. And they’re all high-achievers who, from the outside, appear extremely successful.

Dr. Christina Maslach, Professor of Psychology (Emerita) at UC Berkeley and one of the world’s leading researchers on workplace burnout, has spent decades studying why talented, committed professionals hit a wall. Her findings are validating and actionable, especially for lawyers.

Burnout Isn’t a Personal Failing

This may be the most important thing Dr. Maslach wants you to know. Her research found that “the job was way more important for understanding what happens with burnout or engagement with work than the individual’s characteristics.”

Often, lawyers internalize burnout as evidence that they’re not smart enough, strong enough, or committed enough. They interpret their experience of burnout to mean they’re deficient in some way rather than realizing their work situation is incompatible with who they are and what they need to thrive.

Certain workplace cultures reinforce this. Showing any sign of struggle in a competitive environment can feel professionally dangerous. Without a workplace culture of psychological safety, many attorneys feel isolated and alone, like they need to figure it all out on their own. Many use substances, like anti-anxiety medications or alcohol, to cope.

The Six Areas Where It Breaks Down

Dr. Maslach’s research identifies six areas where a mismatch between a person and their job creates the conditions for burnout. Think of these as a diagnostic lens for your own career:

1. Workload — The one everyone thinks of first. But it’s not just about working hard; it’s about whether the demands are sustainable and whether you have enough resources to meet them.

And here’s something the legal profession rarely talks about: not every nervous system is built the same. We are each born with a different threshold for stimulation and stress. Research shows that roughly one third of the population is highly sensitive — meaning their nervous systems process information more deeply and are more easily overwhelmed by high-volume, high-pressure environments.

If you are a highly sensitive person (HSP), you likely need more downtime to restore your energy than your colleagues do. Managing an avalanche of competing deadlines, a relentless billable hour target, and constant context-switching between tasks may not just feel hard — it may be genuinely unsustainable.

What often goes unacknowledged is that highly sensitive lawyers also tend to bring extraordinary gifts to their work — deeper creativity, strong intuition, nuanced insight, and an ability to read people and situations with remarkable accuracy. The tragedy is that many law practice environments don’t create the space for these gifts to be expressed or valued. When your strengths are invisible and your nervous system is chronically overwhelmed, burnout is almost inevitable.

This is also why the conversation about workload can’t be one-size-fits-all. What feels energizing to one lawyer may feel depleting to another, and both experiences are valid. The goal isn’t to toughen up and match someone else’s pace. It’s to find an environment and a practice that actually fits who you are.

2. Control — How much autonomy do you have? Can you exercise judgment, innovate, and make meaningful choices in how you work? Many lawyers, especially in large firm environments, find this severely constrained. Our level of control in our work directly correlates with job satisfaction. This is one of the reasons the first few years of law practice, when we tend to have the least amount of control, can be so difficult.

3. Reward — While being fairly compensated matters, Dr. Maslach’s research finds that “social reward is sometimes more important, that other people . . . appreciate what you do and let you know that you’ve done something that’s really meaningful.” Do your colleagues and clients notice and appreciate your contributions? If not, this has an impact.

4. Community — The quality of your relationships at work matter. Do you trust your colleagues? Do you feel supported? Or are you navigating what Dr. Maslach calls a “socially toxic workplace,” where you can never admit you don’t know something, never show struggle, never ask for help? I have clients who enjoy their legal work but don’t feel they can trust their colleagues. This has an impact.

5. Fairness — Are opportunities distributed equitably? Or, are there glass ceilings, favoritism, or double standards at play? This impacts whether attorneys feel psychologically safe in the workplace. If they don’t, their nervous system is likely on high-alert, triggering frequent release of stress hormones, which causes inflammation in the body, increasing the chance of illness and burnout.

6. Values — Perhaps the deepest one of all. Dr. Maslach describes burnout not just as exhaustion, but as something that happens when “the spirit, the passion, the meaning is just getting beaten out of you.” Are you doing work that matters to you?

Three Dimensions of Burnout to Recognize in Yourself

Dr. Maslach identifies three overlapping dimensions of burnout:

1. Exhaustion — Feeling like, “I just can’t do this anymore.”

2. Cynicism — Doing the bare minimum. Checking out emotionally. Feeling contempt for the work or the people around you.

3. Negative self-evaluation — Questioning your competence, your future, your worth. What Dr. Maslach describes as “the erosion of my soul.”

7 Practical Takeaways for Lawyers

Here’s how you can use Dr. Maslach’s framework right now:

1. Run your own six-area audit. For each of the six areas — workload, control, reward, community, fairness, and values — ask yourself: Is this working for me, or is there a mismatch? You don’t need all six to be perfect. But if you’re misaligned on several, especially values, that’s important data.

2. Know your nervous system. Are you highly sensitive, and, if so, have you celebrated this as the gift that it is? Do you find that you need more recovery time after intense periods of work? Do you feel more drained than many of your colleagues by constant interruption, frequent task-switching, high-conflict situations, or environments that never slow down?

3. Don’t confuse exhaustion with the whole picture. Many lawyers recognize the exhaustion but miss the cynicism or the quiet erosion of meaning. The values piece in particular is worth sitting with. Why am I doing this? Does this work matter to me?

4. Trade blame for curiosity. Instead of asking “what’s wrong with me?” or “what’s wrong with my colleagues who like this job?” try asking “in what ways is this job misaligned with my needs, strengths, limitations, and values?”

5. Remember there are many ways to create a fulfilling, aligned career. Law is not just BigLaw. There are small and mid-size firms, in-house roles, government positions, nonprofits, legal aid organizations, academia, policy work, and law-adjacent careers that draw on your legal training in entirely new contexts. And for some lawyers, the most aligned path leads somewhere outside the law altogether.

6. Notice what your “good days” look like. Dr. Maslach observes that people in burned-out workplaces describe a good day as simply one where nothing bad happened. If that resonates, it’s a signal worth heeding. You are worth so much more than simply getting by with nothing bad happening. When our work aligns with our true nature, it’s a rich source of meaning, purpose, and fulfillment. I’ve seen it with clients and I’ve experienced it myself.

7. Use misalignment as information, not a verdict. If your values no longer align with the work you’re doing, that’s not a crisis. It’s your inner compass pointing you in a new direction. Career alignment work starts here.

If you resonate with this, I want you to know you can experience the joy and fulfillment that comes from aligning your career with your true self. For more, download my free Career Alignment Map for lawyers or check out my new podcast, Returning to Soul, available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube.

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